The cousin who taught a commune boy the ways of the wealthy, one great restaurant at a time
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Dodi Jonathan Hare — daughter of great-uncle Harold Hare, sister to Anne and Helen — re-entered Hare's life during his Berkeley years, when he had not seen her since he was a baby. A high-end real-estate agent with McGuire Real Estate in San Francisco, and by his account very beautiful, she took him to dinner and nightclubs regularly — all the best restaurants — teaching a boy raised on a Marxist-Leninist commune the ways of the wealthy. He became close with many of her closest friends and colleagues: a second education running alongside the IEOR degree, and part of how the network the record calls Foundations was actually grown.
When Anne died, it was Dodi and Jonathan who flew together to Kettering, Ohio, to meet Helen and Alan Perry and their new baby Jacqueline.
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Berkeley taught him to design systems; Dodi taught him which fork, which room, and which people — the curriculum no engineering department offers and every later chapter assumed. The record files it where it belongs: in Foundations of Networks, as literally as the phase name allows.
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The cousin the family stayed close to; Jacqueline met at a few months old
Open →sister ofThe first to reconnect — lost with William Richards over Santa Clarita, July 12, 1987
Open →daughter of HaroldThe SDA minister and the aunt who lived to 104; the house where Milton and Linda landed, with towns, rivers and mountains in miniature
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